
Hanging out by a white Waterfront
Yes, it’s true! It snowed yesterday in Portland and I loved it! CBC ended up canceling their second service, so a small group of us took advantage of the day and headed downtown to enjoy the snow.
Speaking of friends, something hit me recently. It’s as if I received a new revelation of how important they are. What I’m about to say is risky, and I know it, but I’m gonna go for it anyway. I’m at a point in my life where I’m realizing that all of my close friendships mean something, and because of the genuineness that lies in the foundation of each one, I truly believe the small group of people I spend most of my time with will be in my life until the day I die. A while back I was challenged with this concept when I saw one of my Pastors lean over to another Pastor during worship, laugh for a little bit, and then continue on with what they were doing. Then it hit me that those guys have shared more than thirty years of their lives together. It was proof that it’s possible to build lasting relationships with the people God has placed around us.
I’ve recently challenged myself to not judge any of my friends when they make a mistake, but instead cherish those moments because I have a front row seat to watch God not only do a work in my life, but in theirs as well. I can cherish those moments because wherever they end up twenty years from now, most of the people around them will only have the privilege of seeing who they became, not what it took for them to become that. I think of guys like David, who serves the church with all of his heart, and I wonder where the hand of God will take him after PBC. Wherever that is, I’ll always be able to look back to our traditional Friday night Safeway runs and know that our lives were shaped on the same training ground. I’ll always be able to look back and know that when I drove back to campus, I knew he was there because he was the only student to park their car backwards, because according to him, “the way you leave is more important than the way you park.” I think of guys like Scotty, who constantly challenges me to keep God in the center of everything I do, and I wonder what our first trip to Scotland will be like. I have no doubt that he’ll find himself right in the middle of what God’s called him to do and I can’t wait to walk into the ministry the Lord entrusts him with, take a look at him, and remember how we met once a week to talk about life, read through books together, and spent time praying for each other. I also think about guys like Matt, who always provokes me to see things from a balanced perspective. I see his heart for kid’s ministry, and to serve the homeless, and I’m excited to see where he’ll end up. Wherever that may be, I know that if I need a quick laugh, I’ll always be able to hop onto YouTube and watch an episode of the Matt and Joe show, or think about our time as roommates when we lived in the Dorm 3 quad. What about me? Where am I gonna end up? What will they say about me twenty years from now? What mistakes will they be able to look at during the preparation season of my life only to see how that shaped the final result?
When those closest to us make a mistake and we judge them, could it be possible that we’re actually missing the beauty of God’s work in their life? I realize that I’m not perfect, and nobody I know is, but I’m in a season where I get to watch a lot of people who are passionate for God go through life thinking they know what they’re doing, make a lot of mistakes, only to be picked up by the grace of God and start over. It’s the principle of seeing people for who they’ll become. All of our closest friends should be able to look past our mistakes and focus on who we’re becoming more than who we currently are. Thirty years from now, wherever I end up, I’ll always have the privilege of knowing that not only will I get to see who my friends become, I’ll also know how they got there, and to me, that’s priceless.
Now that I’m done thinking, here are some of our kodak moments from yesterday…
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Double 8:06 pm on January 21, 2009 Permalink |
Glenda is the best!!! Family Issues was great. She brings it all semester Joe. You should tell her I said that!!